why is it so hard to forgive?
can anybody help me on this? even if we have talked about the conflict and sorted things out, still, for me it’s not yet finished. maybe because you didn’t expect that person to hurt you that way. of all people. you didn’t expect her to utter those "rude" remarks and "uncalled for" words, by the way, on A FRIENDSTER bulletin. i don’t mean to repeat the mistake. but even if she already apologized, the damage has been done. the friendship is ruined. i can’t even talk to her even if her ym appears to be online. it’s not the PERSON, it’s the ACT. i can forgive her but not the ACT. is that possible? have i done something to hurt her BIG time? just a little honest-to-goodness remark on a text message can make someone swear your soul to HELL. ok, i’m overexaggerating a little bit. well, let’s just say it was really my intention to pissed her that day, which is not my kind of thing, by sending her "hate" remarks on my status msg. still, do we deserve to be degraded and embarassed on a public forum? i therefore conclude that maybe because of the seriousness of the ACT and the closeness of that PERSON in our family makes it more difficult for me to forgive.
